Mentoring

 Mentoring Our church offers a Bible study each summer. One that is much less stressful and lower key than what we offer during the year. We do it because we recognize that many women in our church simply cannot commit to our structured studies that are offered in the fall and spring. They usually run six weeks, and we have a different one of our very gifted teachers present the lesson, then we break out into smaller groups. This year’s study was on Rest. I was assigned a group that had an interesting range of spiritual maturity. A couple of the women are very well grounded, some obviously not. 

 While sitting there, I strongly felt the Holy Spirit leading me to seek out a mentoring relationship with one of the younger ladies present. I don’t know what it was that drew me to her, but I knew I needed to talk to her. Sue (name changed for her privacy) and I met for tea shortly after the study ended. She just about jumped when I asked, after we talked for quite a while, if she were interested in being mentored by me. I wasn’t sure if it was the right thing to do, but her response made it apparent that this was orchestrated by God. 

I am not going to give enough details that Sue would be recognizable, as I mention above this is a pseudonym to protect her. She is dealing with a lot of trauma; I want to protect her from that and honor our relationship as well. She meets with one of the men in our church, who, when I spoke with him about this, told me she really needed a woman’s perspective on a lot of the issues she is dealing with. So, he is happy I’m meeting with her. I have also sought the blessing of our pastor. I certainly did not want to enter this relationship without their knowledge/approval. 

 We have started with Melissa B. Kruger’s book Growing Together, Taking Mentoring Beyond Small Talk and Prayer Requests, published by Crossway. It’s been a great experience – the way things have been exactly what Sue needed, and dovetailing with not only our Discipleship Hour, but the weekly study we are both in on Ephesians, and even often our pastor’s messages. They have all combined to reveal an area that Sue has been struggling with that particular week. 

 We’ve taken a few weeks off for the holidays and hope to resume next week. We have about three weeks left in this book. The next one we are going to tackle is one recommended by our pastor – Jen Wilkin’s None Like Him subtitled 10 Ways God is Different From Us – and That’s a Good Thing! It’s published by Crossway as well. What I have learned through this is that you learn as much, if not more, when serving as a mentor and teacher. 

The blessings I have reaped have been immeasurable. Sue know she can call me with any issues, and she has. I’ve prayed with her and I have seen her grow. I look forward to much more of that in the months to come! 

Post Script. 

Sadly, while this was sitting in draft mode, Sue relapsed. She went into rehab but did not do well coming out and has stopped all mentoring, along with withdrawing her membership at church. When I spoke with our pastor, he said she made it clear not to contact her. So, she is now on her own. I pray that the Lord will continue his work in her and draw her, once again, to him. It was a good opportunity, and I hope that I will have another one like it.

Jane Austen Quilt

 For whatever reason, I never really got into Jane Austen's writings. My interests were more towards Tom Sawyer, Huck Finn, My Side of the Mountain, Nancy Drew - you know, the adventure books where I could get lost and not in romance books. I suppose because I never really got romance when I was in high school. I thought I'd never have that kind of **starry eye** love, so they didn't appeal to me at all. I really should go read, or at the very least, listen to her writings!  I have seen some of the movie adaptations, and ... sorry ... but they were "eh" 😂. Maybe it's time to go back and watch one again - which one would you recommend?? 

That aside, in May 2024 we took a bucket list trip to the UK.  We started out the trip in Bath, where we visited the Jane Austen house. I am a huge history/historical/museum fan though, so I loved it.  Naturally, as I tend to do, I sought out a quilt shop, or as they call it, a patchwork shop.  I found one, and bought this lovely fabric, that has now been sitting here for a year and a half. It's time to do something with it.  

I'm going to head to the Quilter's Market today to get some coordinating burgundy. I already have some cream. I think I'm going to do a fussy cut around the larger motif, then frame it it alternating strips of the flowers/cream/burgundy.  I'm making a table runner, wall hanging and placemats out of it, and I think I should have enough for all that.  Stay tuned! 

Saturday - I found the fabric I need and while waiting to get it cut, talked with the clerk. She gave me the link to a strip quilt that will work perfectly. It's here: https://www.alandacraft.com/2024/07/02/lap-quilt-tutorial/  I just need to play around with the flowers and the solid burgundy and see which one I want where.  Two of the strips will be a bit larger than the pattern calls for, so the quilt will actually be a bit longer, and I'll decide on borders once I have it finished.  I'd really like to try to free motion this one using the template I got, but I'll need to try that out first to see if I can get the hang of it!  The table runner design is still a bit up in the air, I may still go with the fussy cut block with graduating width strips like a log cabin block.  First plan is to get the wall hanging done, then proceed from there.  And I think I've scrapped the idea of placemats, but will make napkins instead. 

Oh - my new cutting mat came, so I'm ready to go.  

Mentoring

 

Bookcase Quilt - Part 1

 Amanda asked for a bookcase quilt. I've never done one, but hey, it's a new challenge!  After the lighthouse quilt, designing my own quilts is kind of fun! She wants it scrappy, as nearly all of them are, and I'm going to try to embroider the titles of some of her favorite books on some of them.  

This is how it started - pulling out my strips and blocks. 

I drafted out an idea, but not sure how much the strips are actually following along with it. But it gave me a general idea. 

Drafted idea

Practiced a book title.  It works!  The second was a bit better. I'll do a couple more practice runs before I actually do it on the quilt. 

Making progress! I figured I'd lay it out with my 12" square and see what I come up with.  This will work! I will be adjusting color placement some, as I'm using so many different fabrics. Some of the blocks will have lighter, more subdued colors, some these brighter/bolder ones.  

First block sewn together and trimmed to 10 1/2".  Now to continue with the next 19 blocks!  She wants it throw size, so roughly 50 x 65, which means 20 blocks, adding sashing for a "bookcase" in brown.   

Stay tuned!

 

Lighthouse Quilt - from Inspiration to Finished Product

 If you've read any of my other blogs, you know I like to quilt.  I was visiting my sister, Becky Centofanti, in Daytona Beach Shores, Florida last year. She's an artist, who draws a lot of inspiration from Van Gogh and other impressionist painters.  Near her is the Ponce de Leon Inlet Lighthouse.  Well, it inspired her, and hanging in her pool area is this painting:

I was equally inspired to figure out how to turn it into a quilt!  So I set out to figure out the best way.  First, I used my trusty browse and "Googled" sites to turn pictures into pixels.  This was my first try:

Even at 1" blocks, this one to the left would have been HUGE.  So back to the drawing board.  

This is what I settled on.  The blocks are still 1" finished, but the size is much more manageable. 

I had to take it down for about 2 months as my machine's LED display went out on me, so until it was fixed, it sat on my design wall.  Finally, I was able to get back to putting it together. 

And here it is - borders added, free motion quilting done, finished!  I want to add a ship's wheel to the bottom, but need to find just the right one.  It was fun!  Challenging, but fun! 

England, Scotland and Wales - Part 3 - York

Our final leg of our trip included York and London, with a day trip to Cambridge.  We started out by train from Edinburgh. This was the first train ride that had, well, issues.  We got to ride seated for about an hour, but it turned out that it was a Bank holiday and we had neglected to reserve seats ahead of time, so we were bumped and ended up standing for the remaining one and a half hours.  But that turned out to be ok, as we ended up standing with a couple who also hadn't reserved a seat.  He was a retired university professor and the conversation was very good.  He asked a lot of questions about the States, and we asked a lot about the UK.  

We arrived in York, which, like every other town, was lovely.  We stayed at the Grand York, which is a 5-star resort and easily the nicest place we stayed. Interestingly enough, it was also the cheapest!  We had a porter who took our bags to our room which was an amazing room. Breakfast wasn't included and it was pretty pricey, so we ate breakfast wherever we could in town, which wasn't really all that bad.  

York also boasts of Roman Walls that are easily navigable but we didn't walk on them on this trip.  We did visit The Shambles.  It's a street that dates to Medieval times, cobblestoned and lined with shops. The street is very narrow to keep light out because it was where the butchers were, so the meat wouldn't rot, well not as quickly anyhow.  Now it's just a lot tourist shopping, but interesting nonetheless.  

We spend a lot of time in the York Minster.  A Minster differs from a Cathedral by who was in residence there.   A cathedral was where a Bishop resided, while a minster is a more general term for a large or important church.    

We had tea at Betty's.  There are six different locations of the tea rooms. It is very "posh", the atmosphere and food were outstanding.  There was a line about 20 deep (maybe more!) standing in the rain waiting to get in, and the wait was worth it.  

We visited the York Castle Museum.  It's housed in the former prisons, and while the part that showed the conditions prisoners had to endure was unsettling, the rest of the museum was good.  One feature was a recreated Victorian street, complete with character actors.  Lots of other good stuff there, with insights into how life was for various different social/economic levels.  It really lent to a better understanding of the times. 

York is also home to the Railroad Museum, a tribute to the role trains had and still have in the UK.  We found that it is extremely easy to get around there using a number of different railroads, most notable ScotRail and the LNER.  My father, who is a huge train fan, would have loved the museum! 

I took a ton of pictures in all the museums, but due to the funky way the powers-that-be changed how to load pictures in this program, I can't figure out how to post them next to each other to get more on a page!  Ugh.  The limits to technology! Sometimes "improvements" aren't really!  Ok, off THAT soapbox!  


 These last picture was taken in the Museum Gardens as we were walking back to our hotel.  They have a Monet exhibit coming soon, so they had frames set up in strategic locations. But what caught my eye more than those was the scene here.  It reminded me of Georges Surat's painting "A Sunday Afternoon on the Island of Le Grande Jatte", which is easily one of my favorite paintings. I had the pleasure years ago of seeing it at the Art Institute of Chicago. It's massive, covers an entire wall.  I stumbled several years ago the Stephen Sondheim play with Mandy Patinkin and Bernadette Peters which tells the story of the painting, and fell in love with not only the musical, but the painting as well.  

And since this has gotten so long, I'm going to finish the trip in yet another blog entry of London and Cambridge, which should be my final entry! (But no promises, we'll see how it goes when I start writing! 

England, Scotland and Wales Part 2!

 Our last day in Glasgow was visiting the Kelvingrove Museum. (https://tinyurl.com/5dzkac7f). There were some amazing pieces of art, including a weird hanging head exhibit that greets you when you walk in.  

They also had many, many paintings by some of my favorite artists - Georges Seurat and Mary Cassett.

From there, we headed to the train station for a short trip to Edinburgh. They are only about 47 miles apart, so it was a quick trip.  Did you know that Chewbacca and the Storm Troopers spoke with a Scottish brogue? There were several characters walking around the Edinburgh Train Station. 

We stayed on Prince's Street, which is down "The Mound" from Edinburgh Castle. It is a majestic sight to behold, sitting on top of the hill like that.  

While we were there, we visited our church's missionary, Ben Canstaneta. Ben is teaching at the Free Church of Scotland's seminary, training those who want to learn conservative Reformed Theology.  He took us on a tour of the seminary, including a hike up to the very top, where we were treated to stunning views of the city. He also showed us the library, where there are many ancient texts, totally uncatalogued. I volunteered to come back for six months and work on creating an index of them.  Honestly, I would do it in a heartbeat, if they wanted me to!  

I half expected to hear Dick Van Dyke singing "Step in Time" when I saw this view! 

Edinburg is beautiful. It was raining a lot of the time we were there, but it also cleared up frequently. The saying "if you don't like the weather, wait a minute," is so very true there!  We had fish and chips, again, at Berties, which is a popular spot. Tom got the traditional fried fish, but they had a baked option, which I got, and yes, it was just as yummy.  

A must-visit to the Edinburgh Castle, which is so full of history that I really don't know. I need to read some Scottish/English/Welsh history books now!  They had numerous displays that were dedicated to various regiments of Scots that served in various wars. It's actually a military museum.  

I took tons of pictures, and simply don't have the bandwith to post all of them, but suffice it to say, it was sobering and at the same time very moving and beautiful in its own way. 

We toured St. Giles Cathedral, which served as John Knox's parish church, and is considered the mother church of Presbyterianism.  

If you have never heard of the story of the Greyfriar's Bobby, read about him here:  https://tinyurl.com/ms3jffff.  If in Edinburgh, you have to find him and rub his nose.  We didn't get to grab a bite at the pub, so that's a definite plan on our return trip!

Another highlight of Edinburg was having the opportunity to worship at St. Columba Free Presbyterian Church.  It was literally like being at home at our own church! Up to and including the fact that their pastor is from the States - Mississippi, to be exact! That was a bit of a shock, but the people we met who were Scots or English were very engaging, friendly and really reflected the love of Christ.  

The National Museum of Scotland was fantastic, and we really didn't have the time to do it justice. We also visited a Chocolatorium where we were told how chocolate is created, and got to pour our own samples, which, by the way, were amazing. Our chocolate here doesn't hold a candle to theirs. The quality is simply superior.  

The last highlight I'll tell about is the Edinburgh Literary Pub Tour. Yes, it's a walking tour (likely in the rain as ours was!) but honestly I recommend taking it if you are a literary fan.  The two gentlemen/actors who gave the tour were not only very entertaining, but very knowledgable about Scotland's literary heritage.  

Since this has gotten pretty lengthy already, and I haven't even gotten to York, London or Cambridge, I'll stop here and add a part 3!  

Oh, one last picture. Bagpipers were a frequent sight and sound. Honestly, I'm not sure who can dislike a man in a kilt, blowing on a bagpipe!